Ladies let’s stay being a lady. You know, Queen of Nigeria status.
Yes, things get hard, and then you begin to let weak-minded people and thoughts (the devil) take over and before you know it, you are contemplating sleeping with that guy because you know he's gonna give you some ends to pay your bills.
But ladies, this is NOT why we were put here on this earth….to be a booty call or one of many.
We were put here to be everything to that one special man.
My uncle used to interrogatively tell me all the time: “Why would a man purchase a cow when he is already getting free milk?”
If you open your legs to every TJ, Damion and Hakeem…. your worth decreases and just as that new hairstyle you got two weeks ago, he will end up seeking out another chic to take your place because ass comes a dime a dozen these days and guys will always leave you for the next piece of temporary ass.
True, you’re attractive, you have a Beyoncé body and you make him call your name when you are having sex, but sweetie, that alone CANNOT promise you that you will keep your man.
Eye candy is just that. But to give a man something that will stay on his brain and make him consider you for more than just a night, you must stimulate more than just his balls.
If you don’t respect yourself enough to do these things for yourself, at least do it for all the little princesses that are watching and taking note of our every move.