How a Woman Should React to Her Male Partner Requesting a Dildo or Strap-on During Their Love Making

One of the beauties of life is finding that special someone who grooves to the same type of music you like, and loves everything about you, flaws and all.
No doubt, that is one of the dopest things ever.  But where does love, lust, submission and satisfaction meet?
Ok. So what I am asking is…like…you love this brother. He is the best thing since…well…your ex.
You married him and decided it was him and only him that you wanted to be with for the rest of your life.
You clean his ears, wash his dirty drawers, cook, clean and whip him as best you know how.  If someone were to ask you, you would be the first to say, “My man knows how to handle my stuff!”  I mean sex in your household is all the way live and to you, it just does not get any better than this.
He has spent months and months learning your every curve, your every hotspot.  He can just walk in the room, give you that look and you know exactly what is cumming next.  The ultimate pleasure!  But don’t get it twisted!  He is far from predictable.  You just get wet seeing him step out of the shower because you KNOW it’s going down.  He steps fresh out of the shower, looking as though he attempted to put on a towel.  But in all honesty, the towel was brought in the room to put underneath you, because you both know that as soon as he gives you coco buttah kisses below the navel while stroking your nipples lightly with his fingertips, you will be squirting and cumming all over the place.  “Oh my!”
I mean the sex is so good, you orgasm repeatedly.
In the heat of the moment, the shots of vodka you took earlier combined with this burst of love got you ready to climb your man like Mount Everest and give him da bidnezz!
You tease him by sitting just close enough to his manhood to feel the erection tickle the crease of your ass.
You bend over and whisper in his ear….”Baby, I’m gonna give you da bidnezz.” You immediately notice goosebumps arising on his neck.
“Baby, I want to make you feel as good as you just made me feel”, you say with confidence because you know can’t nobody give your man the bidnezz like you can!
“Tell me what you want baby. I wanna give you a night to remember.”
He pulls you close, his palms gliding slowly up and down the small of your back. 
It just gets no better than this.
He whispers in your ear, “Baby, grab ya rubber dick.”
(Ohhhhh shit girl, he bout to rock yo world again!) You think silently. You so pressed.
 
Without missing a beat, you make a dash for the nightstand energetically, and end back up somehow in perfect straddle position on his stomach.
He gently caresses your hand with the dildo in it and moves them both towards his sack.
Intoxicated off a few shots of vodka and multiple orgasms, you begin to smile and entertain.
He jumps and you feel like you are handling bidnezz on 1000, Gurl!
Then.
He grabs your hand and guides you and YOUR dildo to his ass!
You. Still smiling, but maybe not. Just a priceless confused look on your face
He finally horrifies you by telling you to try to stick it in.
At that moment….I mean that very moment….
You just…..?
Needless to say, everything has been awkward every since.  Like can you even go to your girls and let THAT cat out the box?
So my question then becomes, how should a woman react to her male partner requesting a dildo or strap-on being used on him during love making?