"I have been separated from my spouse for only about 6 months now. However, I went out three weeks ago and met this girl that I am just head over heels about. She is the opposite of my ex and even though I never thought I could see myself falling for anyone else, especially so soon, it has happened. I am not only wanting to be in a relationship, but I am also wanting to have sex with her. What do I do?"
If you were to ask someone in a spiritual aspect, you should not even be considering divorce UNLESS it is because she's cheating or not giving you any.
However, this column is designed to give you answers based on experience and education, with a hint of friendly advice.
If you KNOW for a fact that you and your wife will NOT reconcile, and the feeling is mutual, you can engage in being in the company of the opposite sex. However, it would be wise and a lot less stressful if you maintained an open line of communication with both parties and waited until you have completely sealed the deal on your divorce before connecting soulfully/sexually with another being.